From the book Chasing Enough

The six armor patterns that keep high achievers stuck

Armor doesn't show up the same way for everyone. Each pattern has a voice. See if you recognize yours.

The Pleaser

“If you don't make everyone else happy, they'll abandon you.”

You say yes when you mean no. You'd rather burn out than let someone down.

The Avoider

“If you try and fail, everyone will see you're not enough.”

You're always almost ready. Never quite there.

The Perfectionist

“If it's not perfect, you'll be rejected.”

One more edit. One more pass. Nothing ever feels ready to ship.

The Overfunctioner

“If you don't do everything yourself, it won't get done right.”

You're the reliable one. At the cost of your own needs.

The Controller

“If you're not managing every detail, everything will fall apart.”

Letting go feels risky. So you stay stuck in the weeds.

The Hyper-Achiever

“If you're not constantly producing, you're not valuable.”

Rest feels like failure. “What's next?” is your anthem.

You probably recognized yourself in at least one. Maybe all six. The quiz tells you which one is in charge
( and how to take back control ).

Find Your Pattern